What hurts most is that you wasted your time with person that does not deserve your attention.
Always below anger is hurt and pain. Anger is a defense. ~ Ian Cousins
Anger is defending oneself when you feel threatened. Any time you have an outburst, just ask yourself what you fear losing and be honest with yourself, even if it makes you cry, then tell yourself your mind is mistakenly telling you have much less control over your situation than you actually do, and work toward self control. It’s the only thing you can really control. To the situations you can’t control, give everything you can, build the world you want to see, acquire skills to improve your life and the lives of people around you. Feed the hopes, not the fears. ~ Oliva Sullen
Hurt is hard to hide, if you let them know maybe they won’t be a part of your life anymore, so you bury it deep inside and let it eat at you, hurts you but not them. ~ Joan Olson
We cannot see our own faults. So when others point them out we should pay attention and be grateful and we should not be too eager to see the weaknesses in others. ~ Gurmel Singh
None believes it, you say you aren’t mad and they say yes you are. I get hurt a lot more than I ever get mad. ~ Donna Davidson
Stella Uribe
Its like building walls to protect yourself. Cause no matter what you do, the devil lies and saids you’re not good enough. The lies make me angry, and ignorant people.
ms.miserable
When my husband cheated… the 1st time i discovered it i was angry but now i feel more hurt. Thats why i always cry and blaming myself. I hope there is some space in my heart for acceptance and forgiveness.
Debbie
You said the keyword there, ms. miserable. “hope”. Even a thimble full of hope will and can destroy the worst misery there is. Cling to hope, hope that tomorrow will be brighter, things will be better, put things into perspective where you can see the happier side of your life. Mourn the hurt, validate your feelings and know that this moment does not define you but that little space left in your heart that I know is there does. Go and find another soul today and help them, then smile, and know you are worth time spent on earth with you – with his mistake or without it – you are beautiful.
Debbie
Ruby
Getting hurt can sometimes result into anger & vice versa. Staying put while being moody n haunted is *being hurt*. To overcome this, one has to face the problem unequivocally without self-prejudice…