You should not always try to please other people, or be the one that is constantly relied upon to solve a problem, to the detriment and destruction of yourself. I found myself doing this regularly, making myself ill in the process, running around to help others who were ungrateful, rude and didn’t deserve it. My work nearly always suffered as a result, and I would constantly put my goals on a back burner. When I needed help, did it work the other way around? NOPE! I have had enough of that now. I refuse to invest my time and emotions with those who blatantly don’t deserve it or be the designated ‘fixer’. I refuse to run myself ragged. I am worth more than that and so are you. Self-respect and a sense of self-worth will indicate to you what and what not to tolerate. ~ Nadine Mills
Take the time to make yourself happy. You are a great person who is kind giving loving and caring. Be good to yourself for a change. ~ Janet Youngs
